Scar or Ailment. Is it a bottom line to be Clandestine?

Okay this is some bonafide running temperature affair of our culture, which I am going to scribble somehow. Whatever I jot down or say might not be equitable. But have you given a thought to what I write? You will learn the cons of our civilization which is being bequeathed with.

So my dear proofreaders, scars or ailments, everybody has either been gifted by God or by our mother nature. But the one blamed, cursed as the repetitive course of medicine will only be given to the "womanish being" of our society. "Is she always the one who is the babes in the woods? " 

When you beat someone up, you will jump all over that person and start shooting them with extraordinary questions. You just have to get a hint and you will open a season on her discussing all the pluses and minuses. And the plus will be subtracted and the minus will be added added and added. You might not be involved in it, but ask yourself: Is this something good? 

She didn't speak up. Just existing, dummied up in one corner inhaling oxygen filled with beautiful words. And if she speaks up she will be in the line of fire which again indulges her to remain tongue-tied. What torment she is  penetrating inside, what type of commentaries are often heard by her. They say and will always be said. But rarely they take notice of something like this. But mostly the work of addition is done with a mixture of more soreness and the exaggerated explanatory notes, as if the whole mathematics rule of addition they will apply here.

If she has some scar or ailment by birth: Mind it!! We are not blaming her, rather we are blaming him: Our Lord. And if somehow some incident left her with this mark. We should not foist or assign guilt on her for that incident. The trauma which she has to go through, try to lend her a hand to let her emerge out from it, rather than driving her into depression.

Hold her, Be her strength and make her stronger in order to fight with this cruel society. Don't make her think that her scars or ailments are some kind of punishable offence, and with this she can't live in this civilization. A woman or a girl is a key to Happiness. If you give a girl raw vegetables she will make food out of it. If you give her house she will make it a home. And if you love her once she will return the love a thousand times over. So Love Her. Respect Her. But don't Hurt her

If it is FALLACIOUS, is it?

To write about something that is so strenuous and to ruminate oneself to give voice to on a subject like these is even more backbreaking. Everything I want to put into words is meticulous and one can get the picture by lemma itself. Now let's stretch the truth a bit. 

"Okay this is veritably wide of the walk, don't do this."

"It can be weighed up as a heinous crime."

"You can be brought to someone's book." 

"Don't you think about your parents and family before doing this."

And this is it? Do you think so? No, not at all? 

You will get to hear such unattested facts from antithetic kinds of people even if you are wrong and even not. For a split second you will spend a penny for your thoughts thinking and analyzing yourself. But rather than act a fool, if you will give a glance at the person telling you all this, You will wind up knowing about his rights and wrongs. Is he or she so impeccable? 

Is she saying that our parents are wrong or the elders? No! They are regular people who come and go in your life.

If I am wrong, I beg your pardon.

If something is wrong, it is wrong for them too. So before pointing down to someone, undarken your wrongs into rights.

"DOCTRINA DISCENDA"

Comparison, is it INDISPENSABLE?

Every human being has their own designation. But rather than seeing the person's own dexterity, own power, often the so called front runner task of every gathering break the ice with an affair "comparison".

Everyone is not tantamount, some only do this noxious act to destroy peace in one's life. But I ask why, ain't you able to see that one peculiar quality which everyone is having. Everyone is out of the ordinary and it is inherited in them.

But people will say all can do this, do something great. But i say, Wait? Are you allowing that person to do what he or she wants to do. You would rather sit on a couch, spelling enormously beautiful altercations with one theme attached along. Please, I say STOP please!! I may sound rude to some of you but it is an ear-piercing reality and it is taking place in this era also in every house and family. If i am wrong, you think?

My intention is to just feature what is taking place in our civilization and not to outrage anyone. It is okay if you compare the younger ones with the elder ones, it is good. Inheriting the elder ones qualities is the most prized thing, but by not acknowledging what the younger one wants is also not an option. We should stop this ludicrous act of ours. And rather hone our children, be it younger or the older one.

et vivere, reservate!! 

Every subject has its own depth!!

Subject? Course? or say specialisation, on this basis we are judged till today, Right? Our knowledge parameter budget is analysed every time and everywhere. 

Oh we all think that the period of time in which we are living today, people don't pay attention to these stupid trappings. No we are wrong some minds are still filled with those filthy thoughts. Still the society have this thinking prevalent that the person having a degree of a doctor or an engineer are having the best degrees and the best knowledge. 

Oh my dear Comrades, don't get offended, I am not writing this to hurt your emotions. Maybe you as a person don't think so but we can't read the minds of everyone. One question might bother you that how come she is able to read everyone's mind. But no, we meet a variety of people in our day to day life and by chance if some arguments take place on this great agenda we are able to analyse what the other is thinking by their opinions. Ain't you able to, just think?

There are still people in our life who think that opting arts and commerce as a career option is too stupid and they are not worth a damn. Not all of you, very few or say one or two have this old dated thinking. Some of you might have gone through this question, "why is this, is there any scope?". Rather than playing the devil's advocate, we stand pusillanimously and listen to them. We should develop the courage to answer all those who put their nose into it. And stand against all those odds and make your way to something big.

Listen to Her Silence!!

Every day, a few hours, a few minutes and a few seconds, she is questioned for the mischievous act she has committed. But she is only questioned; she is not allowed to answer those questions, she is not allowed to prove herself correct.

Oh Please!! Understand her Silence, why she is all so quiet, when you blame her. I tell you, please listen to the silence of her pain.

What if she was not wrong,and she was doing something good and people in order to save themselves blamed her "completely" and that blame repeated everyday somewhere, where  her heart relied. The process of blaming was carried in such a way as if people are singing some sort of a peaceful song or so. And that too in a way they made it sound so "melodious" for her. Her inner pain, her silent cry was not understood by anyone. The blame she was filtered with was way less painful than the "Broken Trust" she received from her "own BLOOD".

What was her Wish? Did anybody ask her? No? Never? And she was  sure that it wouldn't be asked, it was the people who gave her that surety. Her wish was really small, she only wanted the trust of her own people, who have the same blood running in their veins as her. So what can she expect from people who blamed her, to Trust her??

She had almost lost the desire to Live, but then she thought, "from being buffed out from mother's womb, till we are bolted to the mother earth, we are all ALONE ." The insect of loneliness was so filled in her mind, that  she now pushed herself back from being occupied by the crowds of people.

The girl said this often to the people; 'please listen to the victim before blaming her or judging her', and when she spoke up, she was poured with the sweetest words, words which made her cry her heart out.

And her Life goes on like this, with no one listening to her answers and every one only Blamed, Blame and will keep Blaming ...!!